Empathy has been called compassion. It has been called
sympathy. It has even been called love. The word itself springs from the German
Einfuhlung, referring to the capacity
of observers to project themselves into a work of art or architecture. In a
hermeneutical sense, Gadamer, following Dilthey, places empathy at the fusion
of horizons, as one person steps “into the shoes of” the other for the purposes
of understanding.
In psychological terms, empathy means the ability of
one person to know the consciousness of another. It has been described by the
humanist Carl Rogers as “entering the private personal world of the other and
becoming thoroughly at home in it.” And the most recent social theories tie
empathy to mutuality, as between mothers and children. Finally, pastoral and
other theologians have called it a spiritual discipline that means suspending
judgment in order to feel the reality of the other.
But when we talk about the empathy of Scripture, we
must mean a very specific thing. For if we recall our controlling image of the
therapist, we will find that we have come to that part where the therapist must
convey his or her understanding empathically. It is not enough that through
Scripture, God interprets humankind. And it is not enough that, through
Scripture, God reveals us both as we are and who we might become.
These revelations will have no weight with us if God
shows no rapport with us, if we cannot in any way feel the love that God has
for us, or the goodness of the future that we may have in God’s love. We will
certainly never fulfill God’s promises if we cannot believe God already
understands us as we are, if we feel we cannot live up to God’s vision, or if
we mistrust the love that God has given us in Jesus Christ.
But with God, such disappointment is not possible. The
Kingdom of God has already begun. With Christ’s atoning death, his benefits
have spilled out on humankind. The “not yet” has guaranteed that these things
are already happening. We are always already becoming the fullest vision of human
thriving as the bride, body and church of Jesus Christ. This must include the
depths of all our moral, physical and emotional illness.
We do not have to be
“fixed” to become what God wants us to be. Instead, we might say that God wants
us to be, and as we trust this we become “fixed” on the love that makes us
well.
We have seen previous essays that the contents of Scripture show both a
complex description of the shattered human psyche and an imaginative vision of
human thriving in Jesus Christ of Nazareth. What we shall see in these essays is
that the form of Scripture conveys
God’s understanding of humankind, as well as God’s desire to empathically
reveal us to ourselves. The Scriptures themselves invite us to participate in
God’s fullest interpretation of what it means to be human, and convey God’s
astounding identification with humankind.
So perhaps we can best understand the concept of
empathy not through definition but by use of a phrase that has traditionally
denoted much the same: “I am you” as studied by the historian Karl F. Morrison.
The phrase seems to have originated with Vedic theology and entered the West
generally around the Mediterranean basin in the second century after Christ.
“I am you” referred, tacitly, to the unity of cultic
initiates with their gods, and its usage entered Christianity specifically by
way of Alexandrian preachers in Egypt. But, implicitly, it also referred to
deep structures in burgeoning Christian thought such as the essential unity of
humankind in Christ. These same ideas would be eventually expressed by the
English poet John Donne’s notion that “no man is an island.”
The phrase or sentence “I am you” refers to, or has
come to refer to, profound and disparate notions of association, identity, and
union, having explicitly Scriptural expression in Paul’s “it is no longer I who
live, but it is Christ who lives in me.” and “For just as the body is one and
has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body.”
Also, “I am you” has explicit theological expression in
Augustine’s imaginative portrayal of Christ thinking “In me, they are also I,”
and believers responding, “He is we.” More, “I am you” certainly has
sacramental expression in the breaking and consumption of Christ’s body in the
Eucharist, even as it retains its philosophical implications from both the
Platonic identity between parts and whole and
the Aristotelian doctrine of the unity of substance.
So, in sum, “I am you,” in Christian thinking refers to the
kind-ness of God’s relation to the world, as well as the likeness between
members of the human race. We can hear it, perhaps, in YHWH’s declaration that
“it is not good for man to be alone,” understand it in God making man and woman
in God’s image, and see it in Christ’s incarnation on behalf of humankind.
We
can feel the empathy of “I am you” in the prayers of the mystics—Eckhart’s “the
eye in which I see God is the same eye in which God sees me”—and perhaps, even,
at the extremity, smell its workings in the collapse of God into humanity with
the secular modernity of Hegel, Dilthey, and Feuerbach.
2 comments:
When you write about "the controlling image of the therapist" in your work, you do so in a way that makes a reader doubtful that you have ever actually worked with a therapist or have a true, intimate knowledge of the therapeutic relationship. I do not know whether or not this is true, but it seems you might not have either academic or personal understanding of something upon which you are trying to base so much of your theological work and thought.
I'm afraid you are quite correct. My understanding of the therapeutic process remains an entirely academic one. But I am willing to learn!
Is there something particular that you would say about the therapeutic relationship that does not right through here? I am genuinely willing and eager to flesh out and/or correct my understanding, and would appreciate your time.
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